How to use Neuro-Linguistic Programming To Change Your Life?
The world is full of people. In the living population, the highest population is of human beings. Which tells us that humans are all around us and we have to deal the most with them. So how equipped are we to deal with them? And how do we need to be equipped? We are dealing with a similar community where are we at risk? Many such questions come to our mind. Are you also one of those who are misunderstood leading to multiple issues? One of the leading issues is building and managing relationships. The core problem in relations and relationship management is ineffective communication. Hence, we need to be well equipped to understand and explain our point of view. We in NLP will equip you to achieve your desired interpretation & communication pattern.
It is important to be empathetic when we are answering these questions. As a human, we have a few very similar traits. Hence, it is useful and fundamental to be empathetic. When our viewpoint is in sync with the person we are communicating or dealing we have begun well, hence half done. There is a famous aspect known as building rapport. Something we have always been applying in our day-to-day interactions, without even noticing. This technique is inculcated in us through many cultural and social teachings.
Let's review the questions we have in our mind when we are dealing with humans. "How equipped are we to deal with them"? The answer is we are very well equipped. We have all resources within us yet we are not utilising them, as we are unaware. There are so many inbuilt natural ways our mind and body has which we are unaware and we do not explore. Through NLP you can discover those.
The next question in mind is "How do we need to be equipped"? We need to be equipped to communicate clearly the same message in the same meaning, as we want to be communicated. That is when we are dealing with humans we have high chances of being misunderstood leading to a lot of miscommunication issues. When you are so vulnerable, we need to make sure the message is clear and not distorted. To communicate effectively NLP has few scientific techniques. Which not only helps to communicate but also influence in your favourable mind-set. When we create a physically replicated posture and breathing pattern we unknowingly influence the other person physical comfort. When you are physically in sync you can then drive the person thoughts. I am not saying you should imitate. You can build a similar posture by sitting in the same posture of cross legs or normal. Or say breathe in when another person is breathing in. There are many things, which can coincidently be the same as others, find those and try to stay calibrated.
"Why do we need to be equipped, what is the risk?" As we understood above that when communicating, perception is vulnerable. Hence, to make sure that we are not misunderstood we need to be expert in our communication method. To give an example, I had a client and I was not quoting him financial proposal as I found that my work outcome is not established and I am not in position to demand. Whereas the client perceived that I am not a professional, hence I am not sure of my charges. So we see here that two people with their own perceptions can distort the whole matter and lead to a poor relationship.
To summaries the answers to few questions mentioned above. In NLP we have scientific and empowering techniques to explore in-built abilities, achieve success, earn more money, build enriching relationships and in turn ensure happiness through effective self-management. If you want to explore the NLP techniques in detail we conduct sessions to enhance your living experience through NLP. You can change your life with this timely effective decision. Not only that, you can be of service to people around you and professionally by learning these techniques and be the change you want to see.